Saturday, May 29, 2010

Grilled Black Forest Ham and Cheddar Cheese Sandwich with Aioli and Baby Watercress

















Yes, I realize that’s a photograph of a grilled ham a cheese sandwich, but sometimes a girl just wants to be taken care of. It’s my 41st birthday today, and I’ve spent much of the last few days nostalgic over a sweet childhood made immediate by home movies my father recently converted from reel-to-reel to DVDs. I’ve been tearfully watching my innocent tiny self and my loving young parents and grandparents on screen, and assessing my life and the choices I’ve made since my 4th birthday. And yesterday, I injured my foot while taking class, and, while waiting for an x-ray, enjoyed the theater of New York's emergency room, the drunk claiming she was a doctor, the prisoner leg-cuffed to her wheelchair. My foot's not broken, but in ten short days I have to run around on stage in Amsterdam, when I perform in Boris Charmatz's 50 Years of Dance, so it needs to heal up quickly. Yeah, I wanted a grilled cheese. And tomato soup. And I wished I was four again so my mother could make it for me.

I might be having a mid-life crisis. Or more like a mid-life what the hell? Turning 40 was no big deal; I was much too involved in party planning and party food cooking and Las Vegas escaping with my then husband to think about what this milestone meant. This year, I’m alone, with few friends in New York, and a swollen foot. And I just finished Oscar Wilde’s Picture of Dorian Gray, not the book to choose when one is watching one's own childhood innocence on screen, feeling ambivalent about aging, and then observing all of life’s challenges on one’s face in the mirror. But I look much younger than my years, so perhaps there’s a portrait of me hidden away somewhere expressing all of my life’s regret, worry, questions. Hmm...

On the positive side, I spent a lovely four days visiting my sister with my parents in Portland, Oregon, eating lots of terrific food, walking along the beach at the coast, and even reconnecting with an ex-boyfriend from college. Portland is a food town, and for every meal I ate locally grown, organic, and sustainably raised food accompanied by locally produced wines. Remarkable culinary moments included the crispy sweetbreads with local morels, and a spinach and mâche salad with goat cheese, hazelnuts, and balsamic vinegar-marinated strawberries from Paley’s, nearly all of the brightly flavored tapas at Toro Bravo, discovering the earthy and surprisingly unjunipery Aviation gin, and savoring a delicious variation of a croque monsieur, served as a breakfast sandwich, that was the inspiration for this post. Made with aioli, not béchamel, I added baby watercress for a touch of green, and with a little tomato soup, I think this sandwich might even have foot healing powers. And if not, there's always the gin.


Grilled Black Forest Ham and Cheddar Cheese Sandwich with Aioli and Baby Watercress Recipe

Gather all the ingredients, changing them around to your liking (baby spinach instead of watercress, aged Gouda for cheddar, tempeh instead of ham, etc.). Make the aioli by adding one small, minced clove of garlic, 1/4 teaspoon dijon mustard, and perhaps a touch more lemon juice to the homemade mayonnaise recipe at the bottom of this post. Slather the bread with the aioli, slice the cheese thinly and place on both slices of bread, add one slice of ham, and the greens. Grill in a buttered pan over medium heat until you've got a golden crust, and the cheese is melted through.

15 comments:

Chris Ogan said...

I'll make you tomato soup, but your grilled cheese looks a lot more tasty than any I ever made.
Much love to my kick ass beautiful daughter who should not worry about her age---just a number you know.

Pekin Ogan said...

As you told me some years ago "It is mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter"
Besides, your postings make my eyes teary and my heart full of pride and put turd-eatin' grins on my face. I am so glad I am related to you: world-class dancer, teacher, chef and blogger but most importantly the best Favorite No. 1 daughter I have ever had.

Chef E said...

I will be 49 next month, I feel great now that I am back with my trainer, set my goals, Spain in Sept with my 23 yr old son, and I will take that stack my dear!

Enjoy life, it is truly like a fine wine- it gets better with age :)

Richard said...

Never knew you were 41, happy birthday though! You clearly look mid-30s! Oh and I'm just going to print out your blog once I move to Pittsburgh and make that food everyday for cheap. :P

Tau-Mu said...

Happy Birthday Banu! Undoubtedly, you have many rewarding adventures ahead, and your loyal readers look forward to re-living these experiences vicariously through your recipes and writings!

Nothing beats a grilled ham-and-cheese! Thanks for sharing this recipe.

In Real Life said...

Happy Birthday! I hope your foot heals quickly. The sandwich looks super yummy!

Anonymous said...

Your portrait is your beautiful foot. It holds dancer years (xtimes seven?) of wisdom and subtlety. I think it will heal in no time. Have a great time on your trip. Happy birthday.

xxH

clary said...

clary says: forgot to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY yesterday; hope your foot and the rest of you feels better soon.
Love to read your blog and your recipes
Maybe we see each other in Amsterdam,
who knows.

Banu said...

Thank you, everyone, for the beautiful thoughts and birthday wishes.

Beatnheart said...

Happy Birthday!!! you are one cool awesome woman!!! Look at all you’ve done...and are doing...your my role model and look at the farout sandwich....Those home movies must have touched off some bittersweet memories.. Buy ya did good..cheers and have a beautiful year.

Fritz Bogott said...

Happy belated birthday, Banu! I have just now put on my top hat and swallowtail coat, just so I can sweep off the hat and bow low in your direction.

Banu said...

Swallowtail coat! Fritz! Honored...

Mary said...

Another great post. This looks really delicious. I hope you are having a great day. Blessings...Mary

Banu said...

Thanks, Mary; I'm so glad you found my blog!

Sally said...

always good to reflect and look backward, remember where we have been... and then, armed with the love that surrounds us, look ahead to what is to come.
Have a wonderful year- and thanks for sharing your life with us...

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